Adult Entertainment - Is It A Good Idea?

Will exotic dancers be a good fit for your bachelor party?

Yo, Best Men and future legends! 👋 Your boy Nathan is here, and we're diving deep into a topic that's probably already living rent-free in your head: the bachelor party's "adult entertainment" vibe. Let's be real, when you're planning the groom's last hurrah, the thought of some extra fun usually pops up.

Whether it's hitting up a swanky gentlemen's club or bringing the party to you with some outcall exotic dancers, beautiful women doing their thing is a classic move. But here's the million-dollar question, fellas: Is this the right play for this crew and, more importantly, for our boy?

Ultimately, for bachelor parties, it all boils down to the groom's vibe and what he's actually feeling. If you can get a read on his comfort level with adult entertainment before he ties the knot, you're golden. Trust me, a little recon now saves a whole lot of awkward later. Here are some key plays to consider before you go all-in on the "program."

Is This For The Squad, Or Is It For The Groom?

Alright, listen up. You're trying to craft his last night of freedom – a legendary send-off that's custom-made for his tastes and unforgettable for everyone. But first, you gotta confirm he's actually cool with strippers. No cap, some guys are adamant about keeping adult entertainers out of their party. If that's his stance, you gotta respect it, even if the rest of the squad is hyped for a wild night.

If the groom's not feeling it, or he's stressing about his fiancée finding out (and trust me, that's a valid concern!), then just don't go there. It's especially crucial if you're thinking about hiring entertainers to come to your spot.

What's worse than the dancers showing up and the groom looking like he'd rather be doing his taxes? Super rude, incredibly awkward, and a total buzzkill. Plus, those dancers could be at another party, and you'll still be on the hook for their time. You'll be out the cash, and you'll have a groom who's probably giving you the silent treatment. Not the move, bro.

He Can Take It Or Leave It (The Chill Zone)

Now, this is often the sweet spot. A lot of grooms are cool with adult entertainment but don't want it to be the entire focus of the bachelor party. He knows the squad might be expecting some dancers and doesn't want to be the guy who spoils the fun. This, my friends, is the perfect scenario for outcall strippers.

Imagine this: the housecall dancers roll up to your Airbnb or hotel suite, put on their show, hang out for an hour, and then peace out. Everyone who wants a lap dance gets one, and those who are just there for the good times can chill, smoke cigars, or just soak in the atmosphere.

It's way smoother than herding everyone into a bus or van, battling traffic to a strip club, waiting in line, paying cover, waiting for drinks... that's precious party time you could be spending getting those lap dances and making it rain on stage.

If your bachelor party is a whole weekend affair, why waste precious hours at a "shake shack" when you could be maximizing the fun?

Strip Clubs vs. Outcall Dancers: The Lowdown

Strip club or house call dancers?

So, strip club or house call? Let's break it down like a pro.

Strip Club Packages: Buyer Beware!

Be wary of those "bachelor party packages" at strip clubs. Most of the time, you're just getting a reserved table and maybe a bottle of bubbly you didn't even ask for. If sparkling wine isn't your jam, good luck trying to trade it for a VIP room dance – that's usually a no-go.

What's not included are the lap dances and other crucial (and fun!) interactions with the dancers. Remember, strip clubs generally have more rules than hiring outcall dancers. This can be a good thing if you've got a wild card in the group, but generally, at-home entertainers know how to make a bachelor party epic in a way public venues just can't.

Other Considerations (The Vibe Check)

Before you commit to any adult entertainment, do a quick vibe check on the guest list. Are there any relatives under 18? If so, dancers are a hard pass. Some cities have 21+ strip clubs, which might mean some younger guests can't even get in. Also, think about the groom's dad or other older relatives.

If you know one of them would not approve, you might want to gently suggest the groom keeps them off the guest book for that particular segment, or plan the strip club run for a different part of the weekend. We're here to make memories, not family drama!

Review All The Options (The Final Boss)

Alright, Best Man, if you're at the adult entertainment planning stage, it's time to gauge the groom's true interest. Is he dead set against any "indecent stag activity," or is he open to hitting a gentlemen's club?

Maybe he'd prefer the discretion of having exotic dancers come to a private event – especially if he's a public figure who prefers to keep his celebrations on the down-low. I know, I know, not everyone's a celeb, but privacy is key for some.

And here's the ultimate truth bomb: even if everyone involved is hyped for an epic strip club debauchery tour, if the fiancée is absolutely against bachelor party strippers, then you gotta pump the brakes. Seriously. You don't want the wedding to be called off before it even begins! With the right choice for the weekend, your exotic dancer experience will be a blast for everyone involved. Let's make this bachelor party legendary, fellas!